Ourtime-Paul C Murphy

by Sharon
(Alabama)

Watch out for this one. Just found his photo on the Hawaii models site - Hugh. Something in my instincts said that was not right.


We started chatting last night. He asked me to talk through email. Well I did! But his first email was just a little too much, typos, grammar issues, and length of it.

He was using the name Paul C. Murphy from San Diego, CA with a technical engineering degree. He is supposedly working in NJ on a home remodel.

I searched for his name last night and today. Profile disappeared from ourtime.com and seniorpeoplemeet.com. Only Paul C Murphy found in San Diego CA is a doctor and not this person.

I will be reporting him. Beware!

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Mar 12, 2015
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Patrick Mayer
by: Anonymous

I met him on Our Time, and he is going by Patrick Mayer now. I recognized his language and story immediately as he had also tried to get up with me 6 months ago as Richard Abben!

Even used the same letter which I had saved. He does not know it's the same person. I found this site because I Googled a sentence from one of his recent emails and found you! I am going to play along for awhile and then tell him he wrote better when he was Richard...lol.

I have also Googled other lines from his emails, and he lifts descriptions from other men's profiles on other sites like OK Cupid.

Feb 28, 2015
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New name in Feb 2015! Be Careful
by: Anonymous

Still has a dead wife and 2 kids. I am German and the spelling of the name tripped him up!

From: Mayer Patrick (mayerpatrick06@outlook.com)
Sent: Fri 2/27/15 5:29 AM


Good morning to you, It was nice to hear back from you, Yes I'm new to this too, If you could recollect I did say on my profile that my time on the site ends soon, that was why you can not fine me in there any more, But I am happy we are communicating with each other now..... Anyway let me share more of my self with you.. As you know that I am into construction and I have been working on the project I am doing down here in Istanbul Turkey for some while now.. lets say 15 Months and I am hoping to be done with the whole thing in about 1 or 2 weeks approximately.. I am getting excited and I cant wait to see the end of my project,once I am done with my project. I will be heading back home, immediately. Hope you understand how I mean? let me tell you more about my self let me tell you that I like all sort of music expect rap and I should tell you that a relationship is based on trust, honesty, understanding and sincerity because without these nothing is ever going to work out and I should tell you that I am a man that walk with God intervention not that I am too religious but I try as much to do things in Godly way and the right time they are suppose to be done, I just want to be loved and I will love back in return I want a partner that can share mutual respect, trust, sincere concern, and of course lots of love & affection. As far as roles in the relationship are concerned, I do not expect to be waited on hand & foot, but on the other hand, I do not want to be neglected either. I don't even mind if we have our own space every once in a while to do our own thing either by ourselves or with other friends, but we would always keep our relationship as the highest priority. Any disagreements should be resolved as quickly and as amicably as possible in other words, we should definitely be in at least a truce before bedtime.

I believe we didn't t live this long not to form opinions ideas of that special someone that will compliment you as well as you compliment them. Trust, honesty, understanding and respect are all important values to me. I want someone who I can trust when I'm not there and I want to be able to earn her trust as well.I want need a best friend, a soul mate and a life companion. Someone to share my life with, grow old together, experience true love and friendship that will bring happiness, fulfillment and content in our lives. I want a life with meaning, a life filled with LOVE and nothing more, because without love you have nothing!!!I know what I don't want and what I do want in a relationship. I want to be able to experience TRUE intimacy with someone, because I think its with true intimacy along with good communication and respect for each other, a couple can have the most amazing relationship or marriage and be happy together for the rest of their lives.

I want someone that will make the relationship a top priority of their life and one who is willing to sacrifice to do what has to be done during the hard times and bumps on the road for the sake of the relationship. I'm a very loyal, caring and sensitive person. Sometimes I can be too emotionally sensitive, but that can be a pro and con because I also am very sensitive to other people`s feelings as well. I'm very affectionate, I like to always be touching the person I'm with, If its just me holding their hand, or my hand on their back or if we are sitting anywhere, I'd want my hand will on their leg!! I enjoy spending memorable moments with my partner, it gives us the opportunity to learn more about each other. When i am in a relationship, I cant stop telling you how much i love you, if its just whispering it in your ears or writing it in a little note for you or probably sending you a text daily just to let you know that i love you. In this email, I have been able to share with you about the things that I am want or need in a relationship. I have also learned more about you and know some of the things that you want or need in a relationship, we are getting to know each other better and i am praying it will be everything that we have both prayed for in our hearts. It would be my happiness if this communication brings us closer as we share thoughts and ideas about our personal lives and all that we desire in our hearts. I want us to build a friendship that will lead to something beautiful in the future.

Talk to you soon and waiting to read back from you.

Patrick.

Feb 10, 2015
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I was a Sucker too.
by: Anonymous

OMG I Cant believe This. He Was My Friend too said The same thing To Me. Asked For Money. I did Like a Fool send it.

The Topper Was he wanted $97.000 To Get Out of Turkey To Come To Me and Take me away To Germany.

That When I went To The Police. Thank God I Got My Money Back. Boy was he Mad. The Bank Of America Froze His account.

Think it was Over 1 Million He had in it. I Saw it. The Phone Numbers. Said He had a House In Springfield Mass. Sold it. I wanted To Google His House in Germany But he would not Give me The address..I heard all The same Nice Loving Things.

I am a widow So be Careful.

I was a Fool Lost My insterest in Dating.........

Oct 08, 2014
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He is in Match.com again
by: Anonymous

Richard Abben Hoffman using ichardabben0105@hotmail.com

Wife dead in 2005, Katrina. Two children studying in Germany John(25)Master and Tracy (21)Bachelors. Send pic of George Cloone. NOTE: he stops writing because I asked questions and he said that he was real and did not want to waste his precious time.

Met him in Match.com 0n 9/28/2014. He has a Facebook page with his name Richard P. Abben. There is something in Linknet too, but all false

Thanks for the compliment ,..My name is Richard, Nice to extend the interest, Unfortunately my paid membership is about to expire and i don't intend to extend it as i promise not to stay long on this site,I am letting you to know so you will understand if i don't reply you when you write me as i might not be on here anymore, so i suggest you drop me your Email, so i can write your there and also send you more picture of me, and Tell you all you need to know about me
Thanks Richard

Hi … I guess you forget to tell me your name,., when i was travelling i had to sell my house cause i dont have anyone to care of it while i was gone to Turkey, so i decided to sell it and will be buying a new house on my return back,I.anyway let me share more of my self with you ..

As you know that i am into construction and i have been working on the project i am doing down here in Istanbul Turkey for some while now.. lets say 15 Months and i am hoping to be done with the whole thing in about 3 weeks approximately.. i am getting excited and i cant wait to see the end of my project,once i am done with my project..i will be heading back home ,.. immediately . hope you understand how i mean ?let me tell you more about my self let me tell you that i like all sort of music expect rap and i should tell you that a relationship is based on trust, honesty ,understanding and sincerity because without these nothing is ever going to work out and i should tell you that i am a man that walk with God intervention not that i am too religious but i try as much to do things in Godly way and the right time they are suppose to be done,i just want to be loved and i will love back in return.. I want a partner that can share mutual respect, trust, sincere concern, and of course lots of love & affection.

As far as roles in the relationship are concerned, I do not expect to be waited on hand & foot, but on the other hand, I do not want to be neglected either. I don't even mind if we have our own space every once in a while to do our own thing either by ourselves or with other friends, but we would always keep our relationship as the highest priority. Any disagreements should be resolved as quickly and as amicably as possible---in other words, we should definitely be in at least a truce before bedtimeI believe we didn't t live this long not to form opinions/ideas of that special someone that will compliment you as well as you compliment them.

Trust,Honesty,Understanding and respect are all important values to me. I want someone who I can trust when I'm not there and I want to be able to earn her trust as well.

I want/need a best friend, a soul mate and a life companion. Someone to share my life with,grow old together, experience true love and friendship that will bring happiness,fulfilment and content in our lives. I want a life with meaning, a life filled with LOVE and nothing more, because without love you have nothing!!!
I know what I don't want and what I do want in a relationship.

I want to be able to experience TRUE intimacy with someone,because I think its with true intimacy along with good communication and respect for each other, a couple can have the most amazing relationship or marriage and be happy together for the rest of their lives.
I want someone that will make the relationship a top priority of their life and one who is willing to sacrifice to do what has to be done during the hard times and bumps on the road for the sake of the relationship.

I'm a very loyal, caring and sensitive person. Sometimes I can be too emotionally sensitive, but that can be a pro and con because I also am very sensitive to other people`s feelings as well.
I'm very affectionate, I like to always be touching the person I'm with, If its just me holding their hand, or my hand on their back or if we are sitting anywhere, I'd want my hand will on their leg!! I enjoy spending memorable moments with my partner, it gives us the opportunity to learn more about each other.

When i am in a relationship, I cant stop telling you how much i love you, if its just whispering it in your ears or writing it in a little note for you or probably sending you a text daily just to let you know that i love you.
In this email, i have been able to share with you about the things that i am want/need in a relationship. I have also learned more about you and know some of the things that you want/need in a relationship, we are getting to know each other better and i am praying it will be everything that we have both prayed for in our hearts.

It would be my happiness if this communication brings us closer as we share thoughts and ideas about our personal lives and all that we desire in our hearts. I want us to build a friendship that will lead to something beautiful in the future. Talk to you soon and waiting to read back from you Yours Richard

Good Morning Dear, Good to read from you again and i hope you had a good night rest, would say I am excited and let me say to you that I absolutely like the way you think and say things and I want you to know that a mutual relationship is not 50/50 or some other percentage. It is 2 people working together towards similar goal. It would be nice if you are the one I could trust and cherish as I miss the companionship the most... I would so much like to know more about you, would like to know your dislikes and likes and I would like to know what you like doing for fun and what you do in your spare time...

I am not sure of going back to El paso as i have sold my home there i will like to explore other part of Texas a settle for a very more good area, well it will be nice to decide that with my woman,..hope you will be the one,..Yes i learn little about your culture< i have been to mexico just ones< i am not corresponding with anyone at the moment as a matter of fact i have deleted my profile from the match site, i am a one woman man i don't double date,..

Well I am new to this, I was introduce into this online a weeks ago by my kids and I am giving it a trial to see if I can meet my soul mate here . I will also like you to know that I do travel a lot on business trip, mostly out of the country, my job has really made me rich in so many way, I have been to 14 different countries in this world today, I always enjoy traveling cause I like to learn about other people’s culture ,I want to call it fun , I earn good income from my job , I am thankful to God and I am proud to be hard working man and all I need to complete my happiness now is a good woman,..

1. What are you most passionate about?
There are many things that I'm passionate about and some include: my career, bowling, listening to music, my two lovely kids , golf (I'm no pro, but like playing), I believe in telling the truth, treating all people with dignity and respect, and that we should all try to make the world a better place.

2. What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?

1. Physical health 2. My kids 3. My career
3. Describe what your friends say about you
# Creative # Hard Working # Quiet # Dependable #Respectful #Ambitious #Kind
4. What is the most important thing that you’re looking for in a person?

Compassionate / ability to negotiate and discuss issues with a steady tone / honest / humble / snuggle-able / loyal / Honest, kind, Loving and caring

5. How do you spend your leisure time?

When the weather is nice, I like to spend time outside whether it means driving to a new town to explore ,find a candy/chocolate store), playing golf, mowing the lawn, etc ,particularly mysteries; travel; play my musical instruments; bicycle; hike; draw;

Hope I have answered the questions and you can also answer the same questions, I Talk to you soon ..
Remain Blessed … Richard

… Hello Sweet. I certainly do like how this all started and trust I am as real as I say it, most of my pictures are recent , yes it will be nice if you remove yourself from the dating site,..Let me share my dislikes and likes with you... Let me start off by saying my dislikes first quickly: I dislike inequity of any kind,rudeness,dishonesty, greed

.bottom line is hearing from you is one of the things I look forward to...

I also really don't have much time for sight-seeing and the rest of them but might spare a day or 2 just about the time I am planning to leave
I’m a practical person and I’m not too ephemeral I am the type that can buy my woman gifts for no reason ..I necessarily don't need to be spoilt but just be there for me in times of need, be it a shoulder to lean on or someone to talk to.

Please lets chat on yahoo messenger that will help us to communicate more better and it will keep us more close,.. please kindly add me on yahoo messenger as richard_abben@yahoo.com ,.. i will be looking forward to chat with you,i hope you can share your cell phone with me so we can also text each other through that
Await your reply and i wish you a fruitful day Richard

… Good morning to you, I just sent you a message to your cell phone (HIS NUMBER 225-257-9351) i hope you do receive it,,.Please try to download yahoo messenger if you dont have it already i sent you add request on it, let me share couples of my favour bible verses

Sep 29, 2014
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Hes on Match.com now
by: Anonymous

He is going by the same name with the same story. Gave way too much info in the very first email>>>

Jul 14, 2014
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Richard Abben from Germany working at Istanbull
by: Anonymous

OurTime.com
Fake pic fake profile.

Using Y IM.
Richard-Abben claimed himself as construction engineering consultant working at Istanbul at this time.

Wife died in Katrina 2005.

Feb 10, 2013
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lets get them in the open
by: Anonymous

That's something all who have had the bad experience to find an scammer should do. Let's spread their names to warn other people not to fall into their traps.

Here are my list:

Steve Arjo, Erick Peters and Yuset Cano.

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